Why even ask the question?

Amid all these thoughts about where morality comes from, it strikes me that I haven’t written anything about why I think it even matters. As long as we have a sense of right and wrong, it keeps us out of trouble (mostly) and it allows us to get along in the world, what difference does it make how it got here?

This question is important to me from two perspectives. First and probably most important (again, at least for me) is that anything as foundational as our sense of morality should be open to examination. Not just “what” is morally right or wrong, but “what makes it so?” When I was a kid growing up as one of Jehovah’s witnesses in north central Illinois, questions like this simply never came up. I “knew” that all the answers I needed were in the Bible; if they weren’t, they weren’t important. (I’ve heard this line of reasoning used in both Christian and Muslim historical accounts as a rationale for dismissing scientific inquiry. I suggest this is specious reasoning, but I digress!) When I had a question requiring some kind of weighing of alternatives, I’d go to the Bible for the answer. Or probably more specifically, I’d go to the Watchtower’s Society’s literature which would point me to the appropriate scripture. (Looking back, I wonder at this attitude of acceptance; today I can’t imagine this lack of critical thinking, but at the time it simply didn’t occur to me to question any further. Critical thinking is another blog post though.)

Then one day I started thinking about what I had simply accepted without question up until then. It started with a particular line of reasoning that went something like:

1. I’m one of a relatively small group of people who enjoy God’s exclusive favor (or so I thought).
2. The reason I’m in this group is because my Dad is. This is true in most cultures: people tend to stay in the belief system in which they were raised. If he had stayed a Methodist I would have been raised a Methodist.
3. Thus, an accident of birth determined that I received God’s favor.

Seems kind of capricious of God, doesn’t it?

It goes beyond that three-step logic chain, but in any case the more I thought about what I believed and why, the more questions were raised. The exact process is for other posts, but what I’m getting to is I no longer just accept things “because.” Important beliefs not only should be open to question, I would suggest they MUST be questioned.

The second issue for me is the knee-jerk reaction I get from people who say “If there is no god, why be a good person?” I know lots of highly moral atheists and agnostics (in fact, in many cases they seem to me to have a higher sense of morality than many “Christians” I know!), so this line of reasoning seems counter to my personal observations. If the justification for being a moral person doesn’t necessarily come from God, where DOES it come from?

It seems a reasonable question to examine.

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The source of morality (part 4)

OK, let’s take another run at this. Do we get our morality from God, and then corrupt it because of our inherent imperfection?

In earlier posts I argued that morality doesn’t come from religion or God. I reasoned that if morality comes from religion, which religion? There are hundreds of versions of Christianity each with their own concepts of what constitutes morality, and they can’t all be correct; so that would seem to rule out the vast majority of religions as the source of morality. Of course each religion believes theirs is The One, but the fact that there’s more overlap than differences seems to indicate that religions per se aren’t the source of morality, but something higher; in other words, maybe religions are taking their cue from some other source. That source would logically be “god,” of course.

So maybe religions interpret what God intends, but they do so imperfectly. That would allow for God to be the ultimate source of morality, with imperfect interpretation by humans, kind of like Plato’s metaphor of the cave; what we see is an imperfect and ill-focused version of the “real.” OK then; but if true, wouldn’t it make sense that God would not allow for misinterpretation? For example, if you’re a parent, wouldn’t it make sense to be crystal clear on instructions to your children, especially on important matters? And if we, as imperfect humans, see the importance of clarity, wouldn’t God (in whose image we’re told we were made) be even more aware of this? And yet we all struggle to understand how to live a moral life; so I argued that if God was in fact the source of morality, he did a pretty poor job of communicating some critically important instructions to us. If our relationship with Him is dependent upon doing His will, but we don’t know for sure what that is (at least in the context of what is “moral”), how can we really be held accountable for our actions? And yet it seems clear from the Bible that we are held accountable; some even believe that what we do in our lives could conceivably condemn us to torment for all eternity (although I never bought that!) In any case, it seems to follow that our sense of morality would be much more clear if it were truly God-given. (This is just one of several lines of reasoning on this subject.)

One response to that is we were given this sense of morality by god, but Satan and our own imperfection has clouded our minds. This is essentially what I was taught as a young JW. (It’s a very Manichean belief system!) And it naturally followed that we shouldn’t think for ourselves, but should rely on the standards set out in the Bible to tell us what was right and wrong. And since the Bible is pretty confusing and doesn’t deal with things going on now (the Internet, birth control, celebrating birthdays and whether or not to agree to a blood transfusion, as specific examples), we were told on one hand to accept the Bible, but on the other hand to “not put too much emphasis on our own understanding of it.” In other words, it’s best to let the leaders in Brooklyn tell us what to do; they should interpret the Bible for us. And if you’d prefer, substitute the Pope, Joel Osteen or Jim and Tammy Faye for the Governing Body of the Watchtower Bible and Tract Society in Brooklyn and you’ve got the same concept: as imperfect humans we should not depend upon our own moral compass but should let other, presumably smarter or more “holy” folks do it for us.

Well, setting aside the whole Jim and Tammy Faye thing, does it make sense that we can’t really judge morality for ourselves due to our “fallen state?” Let’s say the answer is “yes.” Then we’re back to the same question: how could the personification of love (God) continue to hold us accountable? If we can’t possibly know what’s moral, it makes no sense that we would be in peril of God’s wrath for not being able to follow a moral code that’s murky at best and outright contradictory at worst.

So again, the issue is the same: if God is going to hold us accountable, then why is it not more clear what constitutes a moral life? We shouldn’t have such a hard time figuring it out!

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What do we take for granted?

As I write this, it’s the tail end of 2011. I know it’s an arbitrary point in the earth’s annual journey around the sun, but even if only for a little while, it’s as good a time as any to reflect on life.

A friend of mine commented the other day how much he appreciated being part of a stable family. Evidently growing up he had a pretty tough time; not a very happy or secure childhood, bad first marriage, poor relationship with his kids, etc. but now he’s part of happy and extended family (through a second marriage). He was commenting how much he appreciated being welcomed into that family and made to feel a part of it. What struck me most about it is that he’s been in his second family for 40 years now, and yet he still feels strongly enough to comment. It made me start thinking about what I take for granted.

We live in the wealthiest society in the history of the world. What we call lower middle class in the US is still pretty well off, when compared to the standards of the entire world. We sometimes forget that, even in these difficult economic times most of us in the US have a home to live in, adequate food and clothing. Sure, we complain about how the tanking of the economy has affected our lives, and I don’t mean to trivialize what this has done to a lot of people in our society (the fact that nearly 20% of our population doesn’t have access to decent health care is another rant), but still, viewed from the perspective of the entire world we’re in pretty good shape.

From a personal perspective: I’m in good health, have a good job doing something I love to do; I’m happily married and have a wonderful home, extended family and support system. Right now I’m relaxing in front of my fireplace with my two dogs Moses and Lola (who, by the way, think I’m brilliant!)

It really doesn’t get much better.

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Christian fundamentalism and US politics

I have a question that’s been bumping around in my head for a while.

Over the past 20 years or so, there’s been a resurgence of support for fundamentalist Christian theology in the United States, especially in politics. I believe it’s well accepted that the Religious Right got Dubya elected; the fact that he then abandoned virtually every promise he made to them to get their support is irrelevant (see “Tempting Faith” by David Kuo—he was second in command of Bush’s “Office of Faith-Based Initiatives” from 2001 to 2003; in his book he voices his opinion that the office was mostly smoke and mirrors and that none of the initiatives he was supposed to promote actually got put into action). And today I think it’s safe to say that any candidate who doesn’t express a deep and abiding faith has a short political future.

Where does this come from? In Europe, a candidate’s religious beliefs are almost never even brought up; talk to a few people from the Continent (or even the UK, Canada or Australia) and they express mystification over this religiosity rampant in US politics. And not just politics (although that’s where it’s perhaps most visible); school systems are being pressured to teach creationism and a “young earth” view as an alternative to evolution, even though there’s nearly unanimous agreement among earth scientists that evolution is established fact. (The arguments over why it’s called a “theory” when most scientists view it as established is the subject of another posting.)

And note here that I want to differentiate between religiosity and fundamentalism. What we’re seeing is not simply a desire to express faith, but a specific brand of Christianity. As is true in most of the major religions, Christians come in a number of different flavors, all the way from those who interpret the Bible literally, to the view that the Bible is simply a book of allegories and general guidelines for one’s life. The brand of Christianity that seems to be ascendant in politics today is fundamentalism, which takes the Bible as the literal word of God, and believes it should be viewed as historically accurate in every detail and used as a set of specific instructions on how to live our lives.

Fundamental Christianity has interesting roots in the US. In the mid- to late-1800’s a number of religions developed an attitude of activism around politics; they felt that it was their duty to bring Christian values to the country by becoming a part of the political system. Evidently the Biblical mandate to be “in the world but not of it” was superseded by the desire to change society to match their ideal vision. At the time this was a splinter view; today it seems to have taken over as the majority position.

So why is it that this activist attitude continues today? And is there something unique about our society here in the United States that allows, or even promotes this attitude? As you might anticipate, I have some thoughts about that; so stay tuned.

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The source of morality (part 3)

OK, Morality: Part Three.

So we all have a sense of right and wrong. Or most of us anyway, and those who lack that sense are considered abnormal (sociopaths, or at the farthest end of that aberration, psychopaths). In any case, it’s considered “normal” to have a sense of morality. So where does this come for? Many would say it comes from our religion and originates with God. I’ve already written that I don’t think it comes from religion; if that were the case then why don’t we have as many moral codes as there are religions? (Read “The source of morality, parts 1 and 2” in this blog). But maybe looking at religion is the wrong way of going about it. I have argued that religion is just each person’s attempt to understand their connection to god (or God), and as such, is fallible. So let’s go a step higher, bypass religion, and consider that morality comes from God.

Well then, if that’s the case, then how would the concepts of morality get transmitted to each of us? If it’s not through religion, then maybe we had this “put into us;” in other words we’re hard wired for morality. That seems to make sense, given the universality of a sense of right and wrong. But then the question becomes did this come from God, or is it possible there’s another mechanism? Those who believe in God will tell you the answer is obvious: God created us that way; end of story. But if that’s true, why do we wrestle so much with moral dilemmas? If God gave us our moral code, wouldn’t that mean there would be no ambiguity? The “right thing to do” would be obvious in each situation, wouldn’t it? I’m not a parent, but if I were, I would not allow for any ambiguity in my instructions to a child; I’d say “do this” or “don’t do that” with as much clarity as possible. I would think that if it were important enough for God to build this into us, then it would work pretty reliably; more or less like the sense of direction works for migratory birds, spawning salmon, etc. No failures, wrong turns or the like; it’s unfailing. So if God were to give us our morality it seems it would be absolutely reliable. But that’s not what we see; pose a moral dilemma to twenty people and you’ll likely get that many different answers. That doesn’t seem like the way I was taught that God works. Particularly when so much is riding on it: get it wrong and you risk God’s wrath. Seems like something that important would be designed to work exactly the same for all of us.

So the bottom line here: if morality comes from God and we’re hard wired for it, then it seems like he did a pretty poor job of it, because we wrestle with it so much. That in itself should tells us it’s not a God-given, inherent process.

But wait! What about free will? Maybe God DID give us morality, but combine that with free will and presto! We have what we see around us: struggling with morality and moral dilemmas. That’s not really an answer however; that’s another blog entry. Stay tuned.

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Family, traditions and giving thanks

It’s Thanksgiving week. Growing up, we didn’t celebrate holidays (being good Witnesses and all). I didn’t feel like I missed anything; I understood the reasons we didn’t participate in Christmas, Easter, Halloween or the July 4th festivities; they were either pagan in origin (and thus had no place in a good Christian household) or they were patriotic in origin (in which case they also had no place in a good Christian household, but for slightly different reasons). The one exception (grudgingly, in Dad’s case) was Thanksgiving. While there may be some pagan versions of a festival around harvest time, there is also a biblical precedent: the Festival of Ingathering, or celebration of a harvest. So while Witnesses didn’t expressly celebrate it, at least there wasn’t an annual diatribe against Thanksgiving, as there was against Christmas, Easter and the others, pointing out its pagan (and thus unscriptural) origins and warning against such celebrations. So we would trek across the street every Last Thursday of November to Grandma and Grandpa Shaddles’ to join them and the Andersons (our cousins) for a turkey feast. My grandparents always had Thanksgiving dinner at their house, and I think Dad found a loophole or two that he felt made it OK for us to join them (although I think he also always felt guilty about it!) I remember well the smells and sounds of the preparation, the anticipation and then the wonderful dinner followed by the grownups dozing in the living room while we kids played. Dad would make sure we finished in time to get to the the Thursday Meeting in Pontiac, I think partly to salve his conscience; he never quite got past the feeling that he shouldn’t be enjoying himself.

When the three of us got to be adults, we started having our own rituals around Thanksgiving (but without the guilt trip, at least for Kathy and me. I think Jim may still have a pang or two, but it never coalesces into enough of an issue to make him not want to participate.) Anyhow, our traditions now include our version of the same turkey dinner with all the trimmings, lots of champagne consumption, watching movies, doing jigsaw puzzles and in general, eating everything in sight and then cocooning with family. It’s a very important and cherished tradition for me, and I’m pleased beyond measure that Cathy seems to enjoy it as much as I do. I feel no connection to any religious rites or rituals at all; it’s totally secular for me. Instead it’s all about family and a sense of belonging. It gives me an opportunity to spend time with my family and take comfort in our traditions.

And I’m thankful for it.

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The source of morality (Part 2)

I said in an earlier post (The Source of Morality, Part 1) that I don’t think morality comes from religion. Or more specifically, it’s possible to be a highly moral person without religion. So if I’m saying that religion isn’t necessary to be moral, then what is the source of a moral code? Where DOES it come from? Maybe thinking of religion as the source is the wrong way to go about it, since religion (or substitute “faith” if you’d prefer) is simply every person’s attempt to put into practice what they think god wants them to do. They get their ideas of what that means either through listening to their spiritual leaders, or from their own interpretation of the book they accept as god’s word (the Bible, the Quran, the Bhagavad Gita, etc.). But if that’s true and that’s where everyone gets their morality concepts from, you’d think there would be as many different views on morality as there are interpretations of the appropriate holy book. There’s hundreds of religions in Christianity alone, and probably thousands by the time you add up the smaller offshoots, so wouldn’t that lead to hundreds or thousands of different moral codes? But that’s not what we see. Oh sure, there’s lots of minor variations in moral codes, but in general I think you could distill almost all views of morality down to a few simple statements. The Golden Rule kind of sums it up nicely I think: do unto others as you’d like to have them do unto you. Treat others the way you’d like to be treated. Sounds more like a kind of a social contract than anything, it seems to me.

So how would this social contract (if that’s what morality turns out to be) arise? Well, a community arises out of a tribe. Tribes/communities provide their members safety from predators, access to members of the opposite sex, and less chance of starvation because of greater food-gathering capacity. Anthropologists will tell you that virtually every culture in the world has a set of agreements or rules; furthermore there’s a similarity to these rules across most cultures. A strong case has been made that these agreements (stated but more often unstated) give the group the cohesion that keeps them together, which subsequently gives protection to individual members. Safety leads to greater probability of children surviving to adulthood and passing their genes on to future generations. So an argument could be made that a sense of community (one way of defining morality, perhaps) could provide an advantage to getting your genes into the next generation.

There’s some problems with this theory though; I’ll be discussing other thoughts in future postings. At the very least though, I don’t think there’s much starch to the theory that morality must come from a religion or holy book.

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Nearly ready to start woodworking again. Yay!

I build stuff. It sometimes takes several attempts (and band aids) to get it right but it relaxes me and I love the feeling of accomplishment when the coffee table, bookcase, or whatever is done and I can put it into use. I’ve got a great workshop in my garage that unfortunately I haven’t spent any time in for way too long. Too busy at work, too tired when I come home, weekends get filled with other things, etc. etc. etc. And because it’s such a handy place to do so, it became cluttered up with stuff I didn’t have any other place to put…always with the caveat that I was just putting it there for a short time until I could sort through it.

Anyhow, my lovely spousal unit finally got tired of the clutter and scheduled a weekend to clean up. When I said I might not be available that day she said “That’s OK, but I’m going to be tossing stuff and if you’re not there you don’t get to complain later.” So that helped me understand the importance of participating. And to tell the truth it was pretty liberating to finally see my shop emerge again. Then, last weekend I took another step and reorganized my major tools. When we put in new garage doors the salesperson said my dust collection ductwork would not need to be moved, but when the installer was done he’d torn down a significant percentage of my hard work. This necessitated moving machines and re-thinking workflow in the shop, which also required re-running ducts and hooking things back up. So that’s been my project this weekend.

I have managed so far to reaffirm that I’m not a sheet-metal worker by any stretch of the imagination.

All I’ll say is that:
1) thank goodness for duct tape (imagine!), and
2) I’m gonna need to buy more Band Aids.

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The Man burns in 362 days.

Apparently hippies are still around; they’ve just moved from Haight Ashbury to the desert near Reno.

I’m not sure where I first heard of it, but The Burning Man bubbled up to my awareness this weekend; most likely because I probably came across a brief mention of it in the news because it just closed today. It’s a combination of art festival, hippy event and party that takes place on a dried lakebed somewhere out in the high desert northeast of Reno. Seems that a guy started out having an “event” on a beach near San Francisco over 25 years ago, culminating in the burning of a sculpture of a man (hence the title). It seemed like fun so they went back the next year and each year thereafter. At some point it got so big (and of concern to authorities) that it moved out into the desert where it’s been every year since. They have some very interesting and free-form art works there from all over the world, and pretty much the only rule is that pretty much anything goes, and when it’s over everything (and they mean everything!) gets carted away, leaving no trace of their event. They sell tickets and limit the number of attendees (there were something like 30,000 this year), and each person or group has to carry in everything they’ll need (including a gallon and a half of water per day), their own shade, food, and so forth. They do have a group that looks after order, medical emergencies and the like, but rampant nudity (or partial nudity anyway) and anarchy seem to be pretty much the order of the day (pun intended).  The local authorities handle things with grace and discretion (the extra bucks the attendees bring to the area each year probably have something to do with that, it being an economically challenged area and all).

Anyhow we now have Apple TV and a NetFlix account, and in browsing last night I found a documentary of The Burning Man. What a hoot this looks like! I don’t yet have a Bucket List (or not much of one anyhow—seems a bit too “old-manlike” to me) but if/when I do I think The Burning Man may have to be on it.

I made mention of the conclusion of The Burning Man on my Facebook site this morning and got no less than 6 people saying that they have friends, coworkers or acquaintances who’ve attended. A distant cousin said she has a coworker who had 4 tickets, but wasn’t able to go and sold their tickets for $11,000!

Amazing.

Don’t forget, the Man burns in 362 days and counting!

Check out their website!

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More about friendship: intervening or meddling?

Does real friendship include intervening when your friend is doing something that might be destructive or harmful to them? For example, does a true friend have the responsibility to take action to stop you from doing something they think is going to turn out badly? Obviously yes, when it might involve physical harm to yourself or others, as in taking your car keys if you’ve been drinking. (Although you might make the case that’s just common sense—what anyone would do, friend or not!) Less obvious might be when someone’s behavior may have long term consequences, such as smoking or overeating. First of all, I seriously doubt that anyone who smokes today is unaware of its harm, and probably don’t need anyone reminding them of it! So if someone has made that choice fully aware of the consequences, is it an act of friendship to tell them it’s not good for them, or is it simply meddling?

What about personal behavior like staying out partying when tomorrow’s a work day? Should a friend intervene then? I had a friend a number of years ago (we’ve lost touch since, for reasons that will become apparent shortly) who evidently thought that it was the responsibility of her friends to protect her from her own self-destructive behavior. We went out one evening while on a business trip together. When I said I wanted to go back to the hotel she said she was staying out and she’d find her own way back. The next day she berated me for not “making” her come back when I left. If I were “really her friend” I wouldn’t have let her stay out so late. Although this happened over 20 years ago I still think about it; at the time I didn’t understand she was just trying to avoid responsibility for her own behavior by shifting it to me. Not very friendly of her!

So where does friendship fit in? It seems to me that if a person is in command of their faculties and understands the consequences of their behavior (even if in an abstract way), it is meddling to intervene. If they are in some way not in control of their behavior (read:  drunk) then a friend would protect them from their poor choices. But if they refuse, then I would say all bets are off and they will need to pay whatever consequences ensue. Of course, if others may be harmed by a those choices then it’s no longer an act of friendship; I think the only responsible action then would be to take your “friend’s” keys and call a cab!

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